Family

I've been married for 11 year. We have 2 kids still at home. Our marriage is a sexless. There is no passion. We have sex about every 3 months. It's been like this for about 9 or 10 years. He has no sex drive and although I've asked and begged for it he still won't come on to me. It's almost like me ordering him to have sex with me. This has caused so many problems. I feel no connection. I've struggled with self esteem issues, many tears.. Im physically fit and attractive although i question it daily....I've had to view him as A-sexual to keep going and in the process lost any desire to be with him now. He says he wants me but I never feel it and he won't act on it nor will I at this point. I've filed for divorce because I'm tired of empty promises effort to come because they never do and the situation remains the same. I'm scared I will still feel like I'm half alive, not a woman. I feel like I've lost my identity because I've put my feelings aside for the happiness of others and because the situation is good for everyone. I feel like I'm married to my brother and scared I will lose a brother if I continue on with the divorce, but how can bring married to a brother ever work out. I don't want to hurt him or my family. I just want to be happy and feel a normal healthy connection u should feel with your partner.

I have been with this guy for 3 years and he has been involved with my child as the only father figure she has known (not actual father) since she was about 9 months old. Unfortunately we are having financial troubles and relationship troubles. He refuses to move to another town so I can get a job which would probably help out our relationship since we wouldn't have as much stress. I would be able to get a bigger place and be in the same boat financially without him so I am thinking about moving out

My boyfriend and I have...an interesting relationship to say the least. We are 27 years apart in age which is not an issue between us, however, we believe our relationship will not be viewed in the same light by family and friends.

I am 20 years old and he is 47 years old. We never expected things to unfold as they did. We had known each other for about a year prior to the night we got together. And although we were both aware of a mutual attraction towards the other, neither of us took it further than flirting because of our age difference. One night he invited me over to talk and we discovered our attraction to one another was on deeper levels than either of us could have imagined.

My parents are divorced and i live with my mom but we live with my grandprents. my dad wants to know if i want to go and live with him because me and my mom and my grandparents are always fighting with each other which is causing me a lot of stess and is affecting school.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and living together for about 10 months. We ware having problems. He is in school. I am a recent grad. We have gone through financial problems. I was depressed. We argued a lot. I was unfaithful on a very drunk and stupid night. We are trying to work through things. But I'm not sure that is the right choice. I do love home. But I was and sometimes still am unhappy. Please advise and be painfully honest.