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So I like these 2 guys. Guy #1, let's call him Thomas, and Guy #2, let's call him Oliver. Both have pros and cons, and I really can't decide who to pursue and who to get over.
Pro:
Pros of Thomas:
He's an all around AMAZING guy. He's totally out to break the stereotype of the typical sex-driven stupid teenage guy.
He's a perfect gentleman.
I can talk to him really easily.
He's always got the greatest advice about EVERYTHING pertaining to anything.
He really just wants a girl he can make happy. Which is pretty darn amazing, I mean when a guy's true ambition in a relationship is just to make the girl happy.
I'm more mentally/emotionally attracted to him, but physically attracted as well.
He would very genuinely care about my feelings.
Pros of Oliver:
He's really fun to be around.
He's easy to talk to.
He's flirtatious with me, a possibility of interest has been shown.
He's a musician and shows me everything he writes.
He's liked me in the past.
He's easier to talk to.
Whatever we would have would be really casual, which is what I'd like.
He's in the same grade as I am.
Con:
Cons of Thomas:
He's never actually been in a relationship before.
He just got over liking my best friend.
He's one of MY best friends. I talk to him about everything. Don't necessarily want to lose that if something we had was to end badly.
He gets really attached to girls and has a hard time getting over them...and one of his former crushes happens to be coming back from Germany for 2 weeks :/
He's a year older than me, which makes for 2 problems: he's graduating high school and I'm not, and he's relatively against dating younger girls, but is trying to get over that
Cons of Oliver:
He's EXTREMELY flirtatious with a lot of girls, so I can never tell if he still likes me or not. This is a big one.
He's a very strict follower of bro code...and my ex-boyfriend is one of his good friends.
He's in a band with my ex-boyfriend.
He's very immature.
He never really had SOLID feelings for this girl, but went out with her for over a YEAR anyways, cause he just couldn't break up with her.
He doesn't really strongly care that much about many things...I feel as if he wouldn't care that much about a girl.
Pro arguments
Thomas
Submitted by zebbers24 on Tue, 03/30/2010 - 02:09.
I'm pro Thomas. although he does have his drawbacks, he seems like the better choice. and yes he is one of your best friends but he IS also going to college soon so if the dating doesnt work out you wont have that long of a time with him anyway. Oliver sounds kinda like just a big flirt, who could be fun to do the whole friends-with-benefits thing with, but not a relationship. That's just my advice, but when it all comes down to it it's your choice on which guy you like more and is worth the risk.
Con arguments
Neither
Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 03/21/2010 - 22:05.
I think you would get bored of Thomas and that Oliver would just be okay for a good time and noting serious. i would find something midline of these two personalities.
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