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I have been dating this guy for a little over a year now and he is a really great guy, funny smart and good looking but lately I have been questioning if I still like him, I get sick of his jokes really easily and I feel like he is really condescending towards me a lot. I'm also really worried that if I break up with him that we won't be able to talk again and we are pretty much best friends. But I am just trying to figure out what do do can you help me out? (My pros are for him and my cons are against him)

Pro: 

-Nice
-Funny
-Smart
-Good looking
-I like his family a lot
-His family likes me
-I am good friends with his friends now
-We have a lot of chemistry
-I know that he really cares about me
-He encourages me to do my best/supports me

Con: 

-I feel like he doesn't listen when I talk about serious things
-He sometimes acts condescending towards me
-He tells the same unfunny jokes over and over
-He is really over possessive and has accussed one of his friends of hitting on me (he didn't)
-He doesn't ever give me space
-He can't make decisions
-He doesn't listen to me when I say that I can't do things
-He occasionally complains about me to my best friend, but never talks to me about it

Con arguments

Break up!

Submitted by kkatowll on Tue, 03/30/2010 - 02:39.

These cons are really serious. He won't listen to you? Is condescending and over-possessive? And talks about you behind your back to your best friend?! There are plenty of fish in the sea. Throw this one back.

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