To Break up or not to break up

We've been together for almost two years. We go to school together and about to go through our second LDR phase for the second summer (6 hour drive apart).

Pro: 

Gets along well with others, gets along with my family and friends
Attractive
Smart
Trustworthy
Similar life views
He is from a good family, I enjoy spending time with them
Makes me laugh
We have similar interests
Shares in my passion to be active

Con: 

Doesn't appear to care about the relationship
Too Busy - He claims this is just a busy time of year, but it wasn't this busy last year. I'm about to leave for the entire summer and he can't find anytime to spend with me?
No passion in relationship / lack of connection (sex life too)
Not willing to communicate when there is a problem
Does not initiate change, when I bring up an issue it remains unresolved after... he doesn't change or see the need in changing.
Does not hold true to his word anymore (something always comes up)
No longer supportive or caring towards me
Hard to get a hold of
Doesn't appreciate the effort I put in / it feels like a one-sided relationship

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