Can't Choose...

Must decide between two boys. I've known them both for a while.Whoever I choose, I can't stay with past June because I'm going far, far away to college and working over the summer. Oh, and apparently I'm a magnet to guys with eating disorders.

Pro: 

Guy #1

  • Excellent taste in music (classic rock, ska, alternative)
  • Awesome guitarist
  • Learned guitar for me
  • Plays all of my favorite songs on guitar
  • Not a tech addict
  • Excellent kisser
  • Sense of humor that always makes me smile
  • Likes skiing
  • Easy to talk to...mostly because we know each other so well
  • Loves me a lot
  • Plays frisbee
  • Great writer
  • Dated for a year
  • Always there for me

Guy #2

  • Very Cute
  • Great kisser...when I'm drunk
  • Not afraid of many things...besides initiating a conversation
  • Enjoys adventures
  • Likes outdoors
  • Loves reading
  • Learning guitar
  • Loves coffee
  • Potentially could have an intellectually stimulating conversation...if he didn't just want to hook up
  • Political activist
  • Writer...though I can't say anything about quality because he wouldn't let me read the book he wrote
  • Loves romance, says romantic things
  • New/exciting
  • Mysterious
Con: 

Guy #1

  • Eating disorder
  • Never has ideas for things to do
  • Gets grumpy easily
  • Rarely has serious conversations with me
  • Does not understand any pop culture references
  • Has few strong interests that make him unique
  • Hates the cold
  • Wants a really serious relationship (we're both leaving for college in the fall so it would be impractical)

Guy #2

  • Eating disorder
  • Took advantage of me when I was drunk
  • Terrible kisser
  • Spends most time with computer and video games
  • Wears skinny jeans
  • Twitters
  • Whines about his feelings...on twitter
  • Doesn't call (it's too soon to tell if it's because he's nervous or an asshole)
  • Relies on text messages
  • Loves Pokemon
  • Hates the cold
  • Likes whiny emo bands
  • Works at Gamestop
  • Hard to carry on a conversation with
  • Would think I'm really weird if he heard me tell a joke/make an innuendo
  • Didn't remember me even though I talked to him twice a week for a year
  • Likes gore/macabre...the emo kind

Con arguments

I cannot understand why you'd even CONSIDER #2

Number two sounds like a scumbag. If he can't handle his own problems without relying on Twitter, how are you going to have a semi-successful relationship? That, and how could you possibly deal with the emotional drag of a guy who whines and complains.. and has an eating disorder!? seriously.

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