Chelsea or Wendy

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So, I'm having a problem deciding between the two.

Chelsea is a girl that I just got out of a LTR with about 2 months ago (we dated for 2 years)
Wendy is my current girlfriend/ thing (we've been dating 2 months and I am in love with her )

Chelsea now wants to get back together and says things will be different this time and that she's had time to re evaluate everthing. I'm so torn.

I told wendy what was going on, and we're on a break while I figure all of this out, she's being very understanding.

Along with everything on the pros and cons list, keep in mind I am literally torn in half about this. Half of me wants to go back to chelsea, half wants to go with wendy.

Keep in mind also that I am worried about if things just go back to how things were when chelsea and I were going out. I am also worried that I can't come up with much of a con list for wendy because we have only been dating for 2 months now.

Pro: 

Let's start with Pros of Wendy.
Wendy:

  • Funny
  • We have the same sense of humor
  • Gorgeous
  • Our personalities click perfectly.
  • We are sexually compatible
  • I'm insanely attracted to her (mentally and physically)
  • I'm sure of her feelings for me
  • She doesn't lie
  • I love her kids
  • Reliable
  • Kind
  • Genuine
  • Caring
  • An amazing cook (i understand that's not a huge factor, but it's a plus)
  • Older
  • Supportive

 

Now for Chelsea
Chelsea:

  • Funny
  • Extremely Smart
  • Gorgeous
  • The sex is incredible
  • Going to school to be a nurse
  • Determined
  • Fun
  • Doesn't abuse drugs/ alcohol
  • Supportive
Con: 

The cons for Wendy
Wendy:

  • No Job
  • Ex Husbands
  • Alcoholic (not an ass hole alcoholic)
  • Manic Depressive/ Bipolar
  • Always says I'm too young for everything (11 year difference) ((I'm 23 she's 34))

 

Now for Chelsea
Chelsea:

  • Cheated on me
  • Mother DESPISES me
  • I can't be sure of her feelings
  • She makes me feel stupid at times
  • She has told me in the past that she gets bored easily in relationships.

Pro arguments

I think you should go back to your ex.

Submitted by Kaagers on Sat, 03/06/2010 - 15:59.

Under most other circumstances I would totally say the opposite but it seems you have a passion for your ex. Taking on a women with multiple ex husbands is hard and the fact that you have to question your love for her over your ex is a huge sign.

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