crossroads

Stay or leave the relationship?
A year and 2 months together, used to live together, now staying apart due to work/ accommodation reasons. 3 years younger than me.

Pro: 

Funny, attractive, charming, gentleman
Tries to act on things after we argue
Was never afraid of commitments, always made first step
Always calls when he said he will
Lives up to his word
Faithful
Never complains, always happy

Con: 

Doesn't give me compliments (never told me I'm beautiful)
Caught lying more than once
Not passionate enough
Difficulty communicating and talking about feelings
Doesn't say sorry easily
Actresses he likes are always blonde (I'm brunette)

Pro arguments

PRO

Sounds like the cons list is something you need to talk to him more about. And if he's not willing to change, then yes, you have to accept him as is or leave him.

Con arguments

Just sit him down!

Those con problems sound really easy to fix if you just sit him down and have a conversation. No yelling. Don't yell at him about it, no one likes someone who screams what they want. Just calmly talk to him about what you want and what you feel.

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