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Separated from spouse, started casually dating high school sweetheart. Do I give the ex another go or keep dating the sweetheart? I am such a jumbled mess right now I don't know what to do.
Pro:
Pros for Ex:
Good escort for professional gatherings/networking functions
Very easy going
Kind, gentle, thoughtful and loving
From a good family I get along with
Attractive
Tries to help me whenever he can
Trustworthy
Financially secure
Treats me well
Same ideals/values
I enjoy his company
Pros for sweetheart:
Very easy going
Kind, gentle, thoughtful and loving
From a good family I get along with
Attractive
Smart
Treats me well
Tries to help me whenever he can
Trustworthy
Kind to others, gets along with my family
Can talk about everything
Common interests
Great in bed
Likes to travel
Has same ideals/vales
Same traditions
Makes me laugh
Love the way i feel in his arms and snuggled up with him
I enjoy being with him and when we are apart i miss him like crazy most of the time
Shares my religious convictions and faith
Supports everything i do, is interested and active in my hobbies
Ambitious
gets along with daughter like was his own
Con:
Con for Ex
Doesn’t communicate
Does not share my interests
Does not like to travel
Does not take care of his health
Does not involve me in ongoing health care (has chronic illness)
Not a sexual match
Ex and daughter (not his biological) always arguing
Cons for Sweetheart
Not financially secure
Super academic and doesn’t do 100% well in professional/networking situations
Can be clingy/needy
Pro arguments
pro ex
Submitted by kerryanne on Sat, 11/05/2011 - 06:35.
seek therapy, he can learn to communicate- talk about sex- tell him whatd youd like.... I'm sure you could make him travel somewhere with ya ;) sounds like you had/have a good stable thing, why ruin a good thing? just see a therapist where you guys can commincate correctly and everything should be golden!
Con arguments
SWEETIE
Submitted by kerryanne on Sat, 11/05/2011 - 06:37.
youve already introduced him to your children- say goodbye to your ex.
Sometimes you have to just let go
Submitted by Atlee on Sun, 11/13/2011 - 22:26.
It sounds like your ex and you just don't fit anymore. Communication is key in relationship. If you've tried talking to him about your problems and he hasn't done anything to fix them, then maybe it's time to move on. Not sharing interests is another big problem. Your interests make you who you are. It's important to have some of them in common. You just gotta follow your heart. Who are you willing to fight for? Who makes you happy? Who do you find yourself thinking about more? You probably already have your answer. Have the courage to make a decision that makes you truly happy. Good luck!
Sweetheart ftw
Submitted by indecisive35 on Sun, 04/01/2012 - 06:14.
The sweetheart sounds like a really good fit for you. I know it's hard to get over an ex, especially with such a history together, but it's best to just let him go. You really have feelings for this old flame and it sounds like things are working out well. That's what matters. Good luck and God bless!
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