Divorce - Fairly Sure About This

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So, I'm a 23 year old girl getting divorced. I'm fairly sure with my decision, and my friends agree with me, but somehow I'm afraid my friends are biased, so I want to hear from strangers how you view this and advice to help me through this and help me not doubt my decision.

It's been about 4-5 weeks with my parents, and we're still legally married.

I know I'm not giving you much pros to work with, but that's all I can think of.

Pro: 
  • Really funny, does funny dances and songs, immitations
  • Good at computers
  • Smart when it comes to news/politics
  • Loves children, cares about them and is really good with them.
  • Cares about his family
Con: 
  • Not ambitious work wise. If he has a job he doesn't quiet care to go forward
  • Doesn't care to do fun things with me, like go skating, skiing, festivals
  • Doesn't care for reading
  • Loves TV too much
  • Momma's Boy - doesn't help around the house.
  • Gets mad if I clean up his papers because he can't find them after
  • We don't have the same views of the future. The future COULD be the same if we wait, but you just don't know how life turns around.
  • Has to see his mom everyday and talk to her a few times a day

Con arguments

Ask yourself

You should ask yourself while staying apart if you are really ready to leave behind the life you had together. Spending time apart will give you a new perspective and solving this dilemma will help you with your decision. But I would advise you to give yourself some time.

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