Do I even care anymore?

I have been with my bf for over a year. We're juniors in high school (I know, young) but we're very responsible and people always make us to be older than our real age. He went through something last year and was safely transferred out of the school, and lost communication with many of his friends (he was veryyyy popular at my school). I care about him, but not the same way. He's the only person I've been physically involved with in my life, but it doesn't help in my decision. I need to focus on me and having fun, but im scared he won't be stable emotionally to hear the truth. I need to figure out if the relationship is worth keeping. We've been together so long I don't know why we are together anymore. Pros and cons are mostly based on both of us and few individual things.

Pro: 

-We are very open minded about many situations
-We care about each other's state of mind
-We have never broken up in our relationship
-His family loves me
-We're intelligent and willing to have open convos.
-He has a good heart
-We give each other advice and try to back each other up
-We have many good memories together

Con: 

-The motivation in our relationship has decreased dramatically
-Lack of communication (now its just "hi, how are you? Wanna go to sleep?)
-My family is not very excited about him
-When he says "I love you" or "I miss you", im scared to respond the same way due to my uncertainty of my feelings
-i'm looking for reasons to break it off
-I try to ignore my bad feelings and try to talk to him, but he doesn't seem interested or always has a smart remark about everything.
-i always have to bring up the problems and concerns in our relatonship
-Our relationship may have started wrong (losing my virginity before we were together ; he had a girlfriend while being with me)
-Im flirtatious and bored w| him.
-i couldn't find much to put on the pro's list

Con arguments

Break Up

Im in almost the same exact situation right now (junior in high school debating on breaking up with bf of a little over one year) and after giving it much thought I'm finding that relationships aren't worth it if you aren't enjoying it anymore. I mean you're in high school it's supposessed to be fun and casual isn't it? Not to say that serious relationships aren't important, they are but after a year you have to put it into perspective on whether or not it is worth it to spend so long of a time with someone who you do not have a serious future with. So it's your opinion in end but my advice? End it. And if you have a chance help me out with my pro con!!

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