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i have been with my boyfriend for just over two years. we have had our ups and downs but things seem to have spiraled downward quickly within the last few months. any feedback would be greatly appreciated...
Pro:
i love him
i want to be with him forever (if things get better)
handsome
beautiful eyes
can be goofy together
can tell him anything
neat/clean
financially responsible
has potential to be romantic/thoughtful
loves the university i attend
loves animals
good kisser (when we were still kissing passionately)
good in bed (when we were still having sex)
good cuddle (when we were sleeping together)
previously committed to marriage
amazing 1st year or so
calm/even tempered
makes me laugh
2 years of history/memories
thoughtful randomly
drives me everywhere (i don't have a car)
his family supports us
financially independent
putting himself through school
potential to communicate well
trust him
faithful
same sense of humor
i feel so safe in his arms
Con:
he says he loves me, but doesn't show it
used to say forever -- now he "doesn't know"
jacked up teeth
dysfunctional body image
unhealthy eating habits
works all the time
stopped having sex -- says he may never want it again (??)
stopped spending the night together
chooses working out in the mornings over sleeping together
emotionally distant
physically distant
not there when it comes down to it
hates one of my best friends
yells at times
cold-hearted at times
stubborn
never pays for anything anymore
convenience takes priority (in seeing me, helping me out, etc.)
he has no friends
he's been out of school for a year
only wants 1 kid (i want 2)
doesn't want to get married until he's 30+ (we're in our early 20s)
how much he's changed scares me
different views on religion
i feel self-conscious because we both gained weight - he lost it, i haven't
can't enjoy meals together because he won't eat anything (except a few select food items)
his hugs just feel empty
it feels like he's just going through the motions of being with me...not really there
Con arguments
hmmm
Submitted by jewbug on Tue, 11/16/2010 - 19:49.
i think u should break u could do so much better then that
it seems maybe he could be cheasting also
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