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I grew up as a dancer in the midwest and have loved dancing all of my life. I had always wanted to dance for Disney and made that dream a reality 6 months ago. I was excited when I was cast, but decided that I would give myself 6 months to live this dream as the pay is not very much. When I left to go to California, my job (in insurance - a job I'm not thrilled with, but it pays well) gave me a 6 month leave of absence.
Well, that 6 months is up and I'm trying to decide if I am ready to go back. I have to decide tonight and I'm SO scared. This is a life changing decision and I'm not sure what to do. I'm just hoping not to have regrets about whatever decision I make.
Pro:
If I stay in California...
- I will be dancing which is what I love.
- I have more opportunites to perform which is a passion
- The weather is nice
- Near the beach
- Some friends I have met
If I move home to the midwest...
- Be with my family
- Be with my friends - including my boyfriend of over a year
- Make 4 times as much money
- Be able to attend weddings and events with Family/Friends
- Afford to travel
- Job security
- Free rent (thank you Mom and Dad)
- Not much of a budget
- Health insurance
Con:
If I stay in California...
- Away from family/friends/boyfriend
- Tight budget without much room for adjusting
- Living a minimal lifestyle
- Make little money
- Less friends here
- Loneliness
- Very little job security
- Pay rent
- Could get hurt
- No health insurance (have to find some)
If I move home to the midwest...
- Not as many opportunites to perform
- Not living my dream
- Less independence
- May not be able to dance again professionally - due to getting older or not getting cast
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