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To Get Back Together or Not?
For almost four years, I dated the same guy. We met the day I graduated from college (I'm 28 now, he's 30) and were very close. We broke up for two years due to a fight we had about his behavior. He wants to get back together and is moving back to the city we both used to live in (he moved away for a while for his job after we broke up) and wants to give us another shot. Should we get back together or not?
Pro:
He is loyal and would never cheat on me
He is an independent thinker
He is a good family guy and has a great relationship with his siblings and parents
He is career-oriented
He is a good emotional support to me (I am a sensitive soul)
He likes good music
He is healthy and into a similar lifestyle
He likes traveling and wants to travel around the world (as do I)
He used to visit me all the time when I was working in Chicago for a year
Con:
He is Christian (though not super devout) and I am Secular Humanist--we have similar values, but different religions
He goes along with borderline racist comments made by his friends without correcting them
He is out of work at the moment and I feel like he could be trying harder to look for a job
We used to have a strong intellectual connection but I'm not sure it's there anymore
He was a virgin when we met and he is not good sexually (though I think he would be willing to improve)
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