To keep fighting or not

I have been dating this guy for over a year. It has been a rocky relationship from the begining but it always seems like we can work out or differences. Although lately I have been feeling really off about the relationship and i guess i have just giving up in trying to talk to him about. There is not a weekend that passes by where something happens between us and i dont think about breaking up with him. The question I keep asking myself is: should i keep fighting for this relationship or should i just throw in the towel

Pro: 

Great Person will go out of his way to help others
I have no doubt that he is in love with me
Caring
Funny, great sense of humor when he is happy
Gets along with my friends and family
Has very good intentions and includes me in his future plans.
Great Cook
Independent-
He is not Jealous or possessive. Knows i have a life and respects it.
Accepts me for who I am
Hard Worker

Con: 

Hot Temper- has temper tantrum and a foul mouth when things dont go his way
Poor communicator, i have to take the words out of his mouth. We hardly have good conversations.
Lies about trivial stuff- so makes me think he will lie about important things.
No sense of time and no respect for others time. Always late.
Think about others before thinking of himself.
Changes his mind all the time, from one minute to the next.
Long distant relationship- in another state and we only get to see each other on the weekend.
Obsessive hobby that takes away from the little time we do have together
Procastinate when it has to do with something that will benifit him.

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