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I dated my ex for years, and to move on, I just need to make a visual list to assure myself that moving on is the right choice. I KNOW it is, I just need that visual reassurance.
Pro:
-smart
-funny sometimes
-clever/witty
-cute
-passionate about what he likes
-can publicly show affection
-can go along with my crazy ideas
-philosophical/wise
-athletic
-hygienic
-stuck with me for a long time.. kind of
Con:
-disrespectful
-controlling
-constantly angry with me
-secretive
-selfish
-arrogant
-unconcerned with my thoughts/feelings
-insensitive with his remarks
-hypocritical
-dishonest
-jealous
-moody
-verbally/emotionally abusive
-almost never calls during the day (when it matters)
-gets offended easily
-insecure
-does/says things just to upset me
-makes me feel unworthy
-belittles me
-doesn't listen to me
-changes his mind way too often
-invasive of my personal life
-anti-social
-does not like my friends
-does not like me being friends with his friends
-lives a separate life from me
-makes no effort to visit/talk/chase/etc me, but expects me to do such for him
-rarely says what he feels
-gets too annoyed with my feelings
-has tried to change me
-unmotivated
-has many opposite beliefs from me
-has taken advantage of my love for money/sex/appreciation
-has continued to play with my emotions after many chances
-psychological mind games
-uses foul language directed at me
-materialistic
-never concerned with how I'm doing
-never apologizes
-never thanked me for anything
Con arguments
Also..
Submitted by lilkytuhn319 on Sat, 10/29/2011 - 14:37.
Also the sex was very short-lived and boring.
Con, again
Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 11/30/2011 - 23:20.
AND, guess what! Let's add being a manipulative cheater for TWO years behind my back.
OH! and..
Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 11/30/2011 - 23:22.
AND he has a temper. Don't forget that no-no.
Clearly you need to dump this loser
Submitted by saraManhattan on Mon, 01/30/2012 - 07:33.
Just look at your list. It's way outweighed on the Con side. It's time to move on. You deserve better. The best actually. Don't settle.
And another...
Submitted by lilkytuhn319 on Thu, 03/01/2012 - 05:56.
He's a desperate, lonely, sad man who only comes back to me to use as reassurance that he has "control" over me when no one else wants him.
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