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Is my relationship worth the effort I put in? HELP!!!
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 3 months now and we get along but when we get into fights its horrible. He's one of those guys that gets really pissed off and doesn't realize what he's saying is hurting me and I just don't know if it's worth it anymore.
Need opinions!! :)
I don't know if its gotten this bad cause its a long distance thing or if its just not working anymore
Pro:
Smart
Same long-term goals- we both want to attend medical school
His family loves me and they're so easy to get along with
Amazing sex
Compliments me from time to time
Good looking
We have fun together and I love just being around him
He's a sweet guy when he wants to be
Can be funny
We have fun when we cook together and when we go to the movies
Con:
He's very hard-headed which makes it hard to discuss problems
He wants to have sex all the time
He doesn't ever want to do anything fun
He doesn't hear me out
He's lazy and always puts things off
He gets mad at me over stupid things such as not picking up his phone call right when he calls
Always brings up the past
He doesn't want to hold hands in public
He doesn't pay attention to me when I'm around
He doesn't want to do things online-we have a long distance relationship and he never wants to webcam or even watch movies together on the internet anymore
I caught him texting multiple girls but I've made a couple mistakes of my own
He doesn't put up effort in our relationship
Makes me cry a lot when we fight
He's constantly going through my phone and pays more attention to it than me
I've changed for him and do practically everything he asks for but its still not enough-its always more more more with him
Con arguments
You're young, you'll find someone new.
Submitted by SexAndCandy on Sat, 02/20/2010 - 04:42.
Okay, you're young what are the chances that you'll end up with him? Also he sounds like he's alot of work, you don't need that if you're trying to get in to med school. Find someone that will hear you out, and yes being with someone does take hard work....but he seems like extra hard work.
Suspicious
Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 06/08/2010 - 03:38.
He's acting so worried and suspicious of your behavior that I'm suspicious of his behavior! Part of me thinks that his lack of emotional involvement means something bad. Why stick with a bad long distance relationship when you could find someone close who will give more?
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