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I have been with this guy for about a year now.About 4 months into it I broke my back and he stayed with me through it but I had been drunk that night and fell and broke my back and ankle and needed surgery and spent 2 weeks in the ICU and he still throws it in my face every now and again that its my own fault. I know that it is in a way and i am still paying for it - no work or school for 5 months now. Lately we have been arguing and I just don't know what to do. I have been hurt before and have had some shitty break ups and want to know if it is worth it for me to try to work it out or not.
Pro:
- Treats me well
- Makes me laugh
- Is such a sweet guy when he wants to be
- Love the way I feel in his arms and snuggled up with him
- Smart
- Has shown me a lot of things
- Very easy going, hard to provoke him
- Tries to help me with whatever he can, always supports me no matter what I decide - but also won't stop me if he sees it can result in something bad - figures I need to learn the hard way
- I do enjoy being with him and when we are apart I miss him like crazy most of the time
- Good sex
Con:
- Pokes fun at me a lot which can become offensive - we've talked and he still hasn't changed
- Still brings up that one night in which I fell and broke my back and in a way throws it in my face
- I am now afraid to go out and let loose with him b/c I don't think that he will keep an eye on my and stop me from doing something stupid (which has only happened once and I was with him and he did nothing to control the situation); I'm not really a drinker or anything but with my friends I at least feel like if I should get tanked they'll take care of me - which they haven't had to but have seen them care for others
- can't tell when he is joking or serious
- feel i have more feelings for him than he does for me - i told him I loved him a while ago and he said absolutely nothing
- feel extra self conscious with him - he is so much more experienced than me and I feel like everything is new for me and he's already been there, done that
- used to make me feel sexy and special and doesn't any more
- long term goals different - i want kids, he doesn't; he wants to move south, i want to go north west
- doesn't communicate his feelings at all
Pro arguments
can you imagine your life without him?
Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 03/07/2009 - 21:13.
If you can't see yourself without him and if you think "us" every time you make plans, than you should start thinking of ways to fill the gaps. If not... there are other guys out there who could dream along with you:)
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