please help me out ! stay or go ?

boyfriend and i have been together for about a year now. he just graduated college and i have 1 more year. cant decide if i want to stay with him or move on. it was never really love at first sight, we just started hooking up and got more serious as time went on and we decided to be together. help me out please !

Pro: 

- attractive face
- some common interests
- there for me when i have problems or need to talk
- loyal
- does things that he says he is going to do
- very comfortable around him
- do stupid things together

Con: 

- skinny body, not too much muscle, dont like it when his shirt is off
-really dont like his mom- demanding, obnoxious
-different social statuses -( i came from a wealthier family so he thinks im materialistic sometimes.. he thinks materialistic is buying only brand name foods, when really is just what im used to)
- very pessimistic sometimes
- bit of a temper sometimes, used to punch things a lot- has many scars on knuckles but doesnt punch anymore
- very emotional
- we see things very differently- i am an artsy person, he is more numbers, sports, engineering kind of guy
- i feel more motivated for him and bend-over backwards - even found him a job
- i am more of a health nerd, he doesnt really work out much or eat healthy

Con arguments

hmm.

I think you should find someone that has way more in common with you.

NOO way

The way you talk about him theres no way you should stay! I dont have much experience with love but I know if it was true love this would be completely re-written. it sounds like hes a friend more so than a boyfriend. I wouldnt waste your time because it feels comfortable doesnt mean its right. Look into his eyes and really imagine if you could spend the rest of your life with him.

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