Is this relationship worth salvaging???

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Boyfriend and I broke up for a month, after only being together for three months because of constant fighting, because he said he couldn't trust me. We have now been together three months since the break up, going on four and we're still fighting. Mind you he has no real reasons not to trust me. I've never cheated on him, there was an instance where we got drunk together, I got pretty wasted and looked down a guys shirt. He also saw that I called a guy @ 3am while I was out. I would never cheat on him, I have just made some bad choices, while drinking...Is our relationship worth salvaging if he can't get over the past and always throws it in my face?

Pro: 

1. Good Provider
2. Makes me laugh
3. Giving, generous
4. Good father
5. Responsible
6. Caring
7. Loving/shows affection
8. Helps out around my mom’s house, does things for her
9. Considerate/thoughtful does romantic things
10. Helps me out financially sometimes

Con: 

1. Gets mad over little things, starts fights
2. Doesn’t trust me
3. Jealous/insecure
4. Scares me when he gets upset, has thrown things and slammed doors
5. Thinks everything I do is wrong or hurtful
6. Can’t drink together- can’t have a good time out w/others
7. Money issue-makes me feel like I depend on him bc I'm out of work at the moment
8. Immature @ times, when it comes to fights
9. Has a kid
10. Brings up the past/my exes

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