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Serious problems or growing pains?
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and living together for about 10 months. We ware having problems. He is in school. I am a recent grad. We have gone through financial problems. I was depressed. We argued a lot. I was unfaithful on a very drunk and stupid night. We are trying to work through things. But I'm not sure that is the right choice. I do love home. But I was and sometimes still am unhappy. Please advise and be painfully honest.
Pro:
I genuinely feel I love him
He makes me laugh
We have fun
We disagree about the dog, but he has made compromises
He's a hard worker
He can be very affectionate
He is not afraid of commitment
We love cooking and have a lot of similar interests
He loves my pets
Con:
He doesn't clean up after himself
He doesn't take care of me when I'm sick
He expects me to baby him
He thinks hiking and camping are boring and they are a passion of mine.
I feel he thinks his interests and ambitions are more important because I don't know what I want to do with my life and he has his all figured out
We have both given each other reason for trust issues
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Submitted by kerryanne on Sat, 11/05/2011 - 06:26.
seems like you got a good guy- perhaps you are just sad and the only one who can help u with that is you...while it might be nice for him to go on a hike or the like, you should be able to do those things by yourself or with a friend rather... dont let anything stop you from doing what you love...my boyfriend wants to go backpacking... i dont! he can go by himself tho and that doesnt make him sad although im sure hed love for me to share his passion- theres other things we can only do together :)
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