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We've been together for about 20months but I go to college six hours away and can only come home once every six-eight weeks. It feels like my feelings for him have changed but I have no idea what I want. I think about breaking up with him and think, well it's going to happen, but I cry every time. I was talking to him about it yesterday (home now) and all he did was lay there with me holding me while I cried. He did that and more even though I was talking about breaking up with him. He's such an amazing boyfriend and I THINK everything would be fine if I wasn't so far away from him all the time, but I just don't know anymore.
Pro:
Hes funny; makes me laugh
He loves me
He’s my best friend
I love being around him; holding his hand
He’s studious
He treats me so well; always thinking about what I need/want
He takes a lot of crap from me
I’m extremely comfortable around him
I love kissing him
Con:
He lives six hrs away
My feelings change when we’re away too long; not sure I love him anymore
He doesn’t have his license or a job (because of money issues in his family...)
Our future looks blurry now
It takes awhile to ‘fall in love’ with him again
I wonder what it’s like with other guys
His web cam broke; it seems easier when I can see him at least through a computer screen
Con arguments
Here is what I think...
Submitted by anastasia2323 on Wed, 03/10/2010 - 06:01.
If you really did love this guy, your feelings wouldn't change, regardless of time spent away. I say tell him you want to explore other experiences, just to see if it's real. I find that "talking" to another guy really lets me know how I feel about the original one. This happened to me recently. I found out I really didn't want to explore other "islands"...
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