should i leave?

in

it hurts too much i think my marrage is over

Pro: 

i love him
15 years
cody
maybe he will change?
he cares for me

Con: 

lies to me
steals my meds
never home when he is home drugged up
snorts pills
makes me feel stupid
breaks my heart
ive lost all trust
hurts cody we fight
take my money
hurts my feelings
i have nothing of my own
even wrecked my van wont fix it

Con arguments

you can do it :)

it sounds like you know what you have to do. You say he cares about you but it doesn't sound like that at all. Make the smart decision and gain your life back without someone holding you back.

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