Should I leave him?
So, my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 and a half years. We are currently living with each other and ever since we started to do that, our arguments have increased. I told him a while ago that if he messed up one more time, I would leave him, but I haven't done that yet despite the amount of times he has done something wrong. Just keep in mind that he and I have had repeated conversations about his character and how he treats me. Telling me to talk to him if he does it again isn't going to exactly make me happy. He doesn't change.
He loves me
I know he's not in it for the sex
When I ask him to come out with me, he'll do it
If I ask him to get something for me, he'll do it
He accepts me for who I am
When I'm upset, he's there for me
My family loves him
We have a ton of fun together
On random notice, he'll come with me on my 3 - 5 hour drives to my mother's house
On Christmas and Valentine's Day he buys big presents (two necklaces,earrings, a ring, and an ipod)
When I talk to him, he sometimes interrupts me with, "I love you!" (It may seem cute, but when I'm trying to be serious with him and he does that, I feel like he's not listening and trying to shut me up)
He's lazy
Unmotivated
I pay for everything (that doesn't particularly bother me, but when he finally gets some cash, he usually doesn't pay for me, just him)
I always come up with the plans of what to do for the day
He's always playing video games or on the computer
He didn't celebrate my birthday, he just played Pokemon
After he said he'd make up for missing my birthday, he forgot to
Most of the time he only pays attention to me if I ask him to
He's clumsy
He's cocky and full of himself
He's afraid to stand up to his mother who tries to dictate his life and I have to push him to
No matter how often I tell him I don't need big presents and would prefer un-materialistic, cute gestures.. he doesn't listen
Con arguments
Eh..
It sounds like you both need to move on. I wouldn't want to be with anyone that I would describe as 'Clumsy' or "Cocky"... even if that's what they are... In your eyes they should be perfect.
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