Should I leave my boyfriend?

He's anti-marriage, while I'm very pro-marriage
He's happy where he is, no motivation to better himself
He can picture a future without me
He's selfish, but so am I
He snaps at me often about the dumbest things
He's still in love with his ex, and makes no effort to hide it
He makes me cry
He's lazy
Never seems to let me be me
Since moving in together, we fight all the time
He is not romantic, not even a little
His parents are both assholes
And he hates me bonding with his mom
He's never sober, always smoking pot
He doesn't read my writing, which I'm passionate about
A lot of his friends are worthless
He doesn't ever let me start sex, cuddling, romance, etc
He never washes his laundry, and won't let me do it either
He's bitter about something (major) that happened 3 years ago, won't let it go
Never tells me how he's feeling, what's going on in his head
Hates things that match, whereas I love things that match
He never wants to go anywhere or do anything
Makes me feel like a defective person when he doesn't get a single one of my jokes
He's jobless and seems to have no desire to get a job
Relies on my money so that I can never buy myself anything nice
I'm not the best he's ever been with, he told me so
Blamed me when his truck broke
Smokes cigarettes, I'm very anti-tobacco