Should I leave my boyfriend for good?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 2 days. We have been broken up for a couple of days because we always argue about everything and he tends to make me not like myself. For a while, I wasn't sure If I should stay. Last night he was making me feel amazing about myself, and he begged for me back. I told him to ask me tomorrow (which is now today,) and I still have no idea what to do.

Pro: 

-He can sweet sometimes
-We have similar interest.
-He always sticks up for me when I am in a conflict
-He helps me with my house work when I ask.
-He can be nice.

Con: 

-He made my self esteem hit rock bottom.
-He ruined my confidence
-He is harsh when I get him mad.
-He put games and TV before my emotions.
-He doesn't have a great attention span. (ADD)
-He doesn't help my anxiety and depression, he makes them worse.
-When he's angry he has been known to say how he hates me, doesn't need me, doesn't want to come home to a girl like me, and how I ruin his life.
-He's parents were born in China, so they believe in traditional Chinese beliefs and so they do not like that I am American and always pressure him to find another girl.
-His Mom argues with me whenever she can
-He is in China for the next month (He has been there for a month already)
-We never really do much when we are together.

Con arguments

ALSO i forgot to add.

He has told me who looked better than me in our school, even when i asked him to stop he didn't. He breaks promises all the time. He has cheated on me with my best friend in the beginning of our relationship and in the middle our relationship he tried to get with this other girl in our school until i caught him begging his friend for her number.

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