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I have been married for 9 years and we have 2 daughters together ages 8 and 1. We also have his daughter age 14 living with us and has been since she was 9 years old. My husband and I got married when I was 19 years old and he was 40. I came right out of living with my dad and another boyfriend to live with him and 3 short months later we were married because the pastor of his church said we couldn't live together without being married. I am now about to turn 29 years old and want to stay but also want to leave. I want to do the right thing in God's eyes and not disappoint him but I am not happy and don't know if I will ever be with him.
Pro:
Father of my children
Has a section 8 voucher
Helps watch the children when I am at work
Recently started trying to clean the house
Does the yard work
My children love him
He loves our children
Supports my education
supports me working
goes to church
christian
Con:
Can't read ANYTHING (illiterate)
Doesn't cook
No Job
on social security (only 600 per month)
can't write
doesn't want to learn or better himself
goes to Pentecostal church (4 hours long)
can't help kids with homework
can't pay bills
not fun to be with, always serious
never takes me anywhere
takes my car keys
makes me feel like a bad mother because I work and go to school so much
isolates me from my family
mentally ill with (bipolar disorder)
always thinks someone is out to get him
doesn't trust anyone
Pro arguments
Agreed
Submitted by Karysa on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 07:45.
I agree with That ^
Do what makes you happy. He sounds like a decent guy. Maybe he's just in a slump right now. Talk to him about the things he needs to change and give it some time. If things dont change or he's not trying to make a change after awhile I would say first step is seperating and seeing where it goes from there. Sometimes all men need is a good scare.
Con arguments
Do What Will Make U Happy
Submitted by Ms Bunny on Thu, 06/02/2011 - 02:50.
I know you probably dont want to hurt his feelings or break up your family, but I think you should do what makes you happy. If your not happy with him you should think about maybe separating for a while and seeing how things go before going the divorce route. Sometimes you think the grass is greener on the other side, when it really isnt. But then again sometimes it is greener on the other side!
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