Should I move or Stay?

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I live in Michigan. My mom lives here and I've lived here all my life. I don't like it here. No one likes me and we fight all the time. I am afraid to leave because I won't make friends. My problem is deciding on moving to NC with my dad. I love it there. Everyone loves me and it's so fun. I can't decide.

Pro: 

Of Moving

  • Better career choices
  • Better life
  • Loving family
  • Fun
  • No Fighting
Con: 

Of Moving

  • No friends
  • Miss mom
  • Miss family up here
  • New place
  • Nervousness

Pro arguments

GO!

Submitted by katemullen on Mon, 01/11/2010 - 01:55.

Go, go, go, gooo! Once you get over the initial worry of getting to NC, you'll be able to appreciate how much better life will be there! My best friend moved last month, after finally getting fed up with a terrible life here with his mother, to be with his dad in Washington, and he says its the best decision he's ever made. Give it a try, if it doesn't work the way you want, you can always go back.. and you won't have the lingering question of, "what if?"

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