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I love my fiancée very very much but he makes me feel bad about myself sometimes and he has had so many relationships with other girls before me...and he still has connections to some of them that no matter how hard i try to ignore them and be cool with them, i can't stop from getting upset. I know I can be over-sensitive too. He is an amazing man and he has been through a lot of hardship in his life. We've been together for a year now and i believe in us but i need some outside advice.
Pro:
-he is a great father
-he always tries to help others and do the right thing
-he truly loves and accepts me for who i am
-he wants to know what i want and what i think
-he makes me feel beautiful and wanted
-he is protective of me and his children
-he never hits or yells at me
-he likes including me in family events
-he makes me smile
-he takes me and the kids out for fun days
-he is comfortable around me
-he never ignores me
-we have great sex
-he is trying to make a home for his children and me
-he isn't afraid to tell me how he feels
-he tries to be a better person for his children and me
-he does nice things for me
-he bought a house and is planning on letting me move in with him in a year
-he makes me feel safe
-he holds me in his arms all the time
Con:
-he makes fun of me a lot
-he calls me spoiled for the things i have, even though i do not take them for granted
-he flirts with other girls
-he looks at other girls and comments if he thinks they're hot or pretty
-i can't go to the college i want because we can't move
-he has a hurtful and hateful ex-fiancée who has to be in his life because they share a son
-he expects me to make most of the money
-he hangs out with a girl he had sex with before he met me. she tries to get with him still, sometimes in front of me and he says no but continues to hang out with her alone sometimes. he says she's not going anywhere even though it upsets me. he has no connection with her and no reason to see her other than he wants to see her. she hates me and says bad things about me to him and he allows it.
-he makes me cry
-he makes me feel bad because he is so much more sexually experienced than i am
-he tries to guilt-trip me into doing things i don't want to do
-he jokes about finding someone better than me
-he judges me
-he gets very jealous when i hang out with male friends and is mean when i do
-he talks about other girls he thinks are hot
-he's had sex with many many girls and sometimes tells me about what they used to do to make me jealous
-he calls me stupid sometimes
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