Should I stay with my boyfriend?

We've been together for 6ish months. We get along great, but I sometimes question whether he needs me or not since he can be fiercly independent and can be bad about communicating sometimes

Pro: 

-Supportive of my career aspirations-I'm still in grad school and he has been supportive emotionally and financially when necessary
-Understanding of my family situation
-Great sense of humor
-"Gets me"
-Get's along with my friends and takes an interest in their lives

Con: 

-He can get very absorbed in his work and not get in contact with people for a few days
-Sometimes it seems like he doesn't need me around
-Not particularly affectionate at times
-Lives in a different cities, can make it hard to meet spotaneously

Pro arguments

If he gets you, HE GETS YOU

You say your man gets you, thats all that matters, girl. Snag that boy up before someone else does!

Con arguments

Distance

The long distance thing can be very tough. For me, that counts as two negatives. But, consider this - do you think his need for inedependence would be greater or lesser if you lived close to each other - ask him, perhaps?

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