should I stay or go

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I have been with my husband going on five years and and we have been married for one year.
he is always fighting with me and I know that he is cheating on me but is that a good enough reason to leave

Pro: 

I love him

Con: 

ALWAYS FIGHTS WITH ME
DISRESPECTS ME AND MY FAMILY
DONT WORK AND IS NOT LOOKING FOR JOB
KEEPS ME AWAY FROM MY FAMILY
CHEATS
DRINKS
LEAVES TO PARTY WITH FRIENDS AND DONT COME HOME

Con arguments

leave

Submitted by haunalee on Mon, 07/26/2010 - 13:44.

Get the hell out!

Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 11/04/2010 - 15:32.

you say you love him, but HE OBVIOUSLY DOES NOT LOVE YOU! Actions speak louder than words sister, don't listen to his mouth, listen to how he treats you.
You should also consider this question "Why am I willing to stay with a man who treats me this way?" What inside yourself is so sad and weak and vulnerable that you are okay with being treated like doormat. You deserve better than this. What happened to your self esteem? Seek Counseling! Fix yourself, become stronger, stand on your own two feet.
You only live once, you deserve to be treated like a queen, loved and cherished and happy!
GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE!

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