Should I Stay Or Should I Go

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I have a girlfriend of three months, and even though we get on incredibly well...there are obvious differences in personality and a lack of trust of her on my behalf.

Pro: 

Funny
Likes the same things I do (entertainment)
Fun to be around
Easy to be around
Always up for going out or doing anything
Great in the sack

Con: 

She's not romantic
Not affectionate
Dislikes communicating her feelings/emotions
Dislikes discussing our relationship
Not very loving
Looks turned off when I suggest that I am falling for her
Very Moody
Short Tempered
Selfish

We always fight when drunk
I don't trust her because I know she has cheated on her previous partner
She knows I don't trust her

I find myself always paying for everything (and i think she semi-expects this because she never offers)

Con arguments

Don't sacrifice your own happiness...

Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 03/11/2010 - 15:46.

I cannot put into words how identical your relationship is to mine, however I have been with my boyfriend for three years. The list of pros and cons that you have provided for your relationship is identical to the list I have created with regards to my boyfriend.

Allow me to speak from experience: DON'T waste your time sacrificing your own happiness. You deserve someone who is romantic, trustworthy, emotionally available, grateful of your romantic nature and who's personality is not altered by alcohol.

This relationship will not last, and deep down you know this. Do not wait until it has created an empty hole inside yourself.

Best of luck!

L .

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