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My boyfriend and have been together for 3.5 years, living together for 2.5 years. I feel that at this point we should know if we want to be together long term, but he thinks I am rushing things. I am wondering if I am overreacting? I am really beginning to feel that if he is not sure about me at this point, than we should just break up.
Pro:
- he loves me
- takes care of me
- loves my dog
- is responsible
- trustworthy
- won't cheat
- doesn't want kids
- &smart
- funny
- is neat and clean
- is good about not expecting me to do everything cause I'm the woman
- tries to make me feel comfortable around his family
- orders vegetarian food in groups so I don't feel like a freak
- has opened up to me a lot, even though he's super introverted
- lately he has been way more attentive
- cared enough to add me to his health insurance
- can put up with my family
- has a good job
- liberal
- attractive
- has good taste
- we have fun together
- goes out of his way to spend every Saturday with me
Con:
- is not as passionate about being with me as I would like
- doesn't want to get married
- is not impulsive ever
- hates my cat
- introverted
- doesn't pay attention to me, even when I flat out ask him to
- spends hours a day doing fantasy sports
- I might want a kid eventually
- doesn't get when he's taking a joke too far
- has secret rules about everything
- says mean things and doesn't even get why it bothers me
- doesn't like most of my friends
- talks to his stupid ex girlfriends
- is always trying to get me to exercise and eat less to be skinnier
- hates it when I ask him questions. About anything.
- doesn't like it when I try to plan things.
- Always wants to be in charge.
- he hasn't made up his mind about me and I don't think he ever will
- always tries to get out of seeing my family
- doesn't ever tell me where he's going, but gets all annoyed if I do something without telling him
- doesn't tell me when something is bothering him, just acts all mean til I ask
- freaks out about people staying with us- I feel like my friends and family aren't welcome
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