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Should we have a baby now, or wait the 3 years we planned to wait.
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Pro:
We're working and have good jobs so we could support a baby financially.
I really want, and feel ready for a baby.
Lots of my friends have had babies recently so they could offer advice, support and hand-me-downs.
We're married and in a good relationship - I think we would make good parents.
The apartment we live in would be big enough for a baby, so we wouldn't need to move.
My best friend and my cousin are also pregnant so we could talk baby together.
My husband's parents are both still alive and so is my dad - they're all getting on a little and may not still be around if we wait too much longer (that's pretty morbid though, and none of them are actually sick!)
It's all I can bloody well think about!!!
Con:
We live 6000 miles away from either of our families in the Middle East (although this won't change when we do come to have the baby in 3 years)
We are paying out for a mortgage that will be paid off in 2 years time.
We want to go travelling in 2 years which won't happen with a baby.
I have a good job, which I would have to give up, at least for a short time, if we have a baby.
We have a cat - would I be able to keep the cat if we had a baby?
We couldn't be selfish anymore and we wouldn't be able to go out when we wanted.
I'm pretty damn scared of the thought of needles, blood tests, injections and labour!
I'm finding it much easier to think of cans than pros!
I've not actually discussed bringing having a baby forward with my husband, and I'm not sure I would know how to approach it with him.
I love sleep!!
Con arguments
Wait
Submitted by SexAndCandy on Sat, 02/20/2010 - 04:35.
I think you should wait, you said that you want to travel and I think that you should do it before a baby comes, like I've said before you have to get you "wooo" out before a kid comes, you don't want to feel like you missed out...so wait at lest a year...and see how you feel than.
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