Some Pros and Cons

Condescending
Wants/Needs to be alone
He shows no real need for me
He doesn't show that I am important in his life
Doesn't MAKE time for me
Not enough sex
Smokes cigarettes
Called me by his exes name and compared me to her
Says things like, "if you deserve it", "I was going to, but", &/or "I love you, but"
Not adventurous sexually
Not adventurous with me in life
He doesn't hold my hand
He doesn't massage
Hurts my feelings
Can bring out the worst in me
He doesn't carress me
His ex has tried contacting me
His ex has contacted him
His ex tried pulling the "pregnancy card"
Doesn't compliment me
Doesn't seem attracted to me physically/sexually
Doesn't let me know that I am appreciated for being me or for anything I do
Grumpy
We do not embrace each other
There is no passion
Does not like sharing
Doesn't give me attention
No energy for me
Shows no interest in my family
Doesn't show interest in anything I am interested in
Doesn't ask about my day
Doesn't send random texts/give random cards, flowers, etc./call to actually talk
When "we" talk, it's him talking at me
Doesn't talk sweetly to me
He always thinks I am trying to piss him off
Haven't met his parents
Doesn't show that he loves me
Doesn't compromise
We don't communicate well, if at all
Doesn't seem to give anyone a chance
He promises things to me, but doesn't follow through
He can be inconsiderate of my feelings
He wasn't around for my birthday or for Thanksgiving and never made up for it either
He doesn't look at things from my point of view
Nobody gets what they want
He can be spiteful
I don't want to be near his friends or family
Prefers to work out alone
Prefers to be with his friends
We are not friends
There are things that I feel I cannot tell him
I feel that he judges me
Treats me like a child
Does not care what I want
I don't trust that he's not with someone else emotionally or physically
I feel that he is ashamed of me, amlost like a "dirty little secret"
I feel that he isn't emotionally able/available to be in a committed relationship with me
He mostly knows what is going on in my life, yet I hardly know anything about his
He doesn't understand my humor
I like to be pursued
He doesn't care about what is going on in my head
Doesn't ask for my opinion or ideas
Does not make me feel apart of anything
He doesn't clean up after himself
He doesn't ask about me
He doesn't clean himself for me
We fight a lot
Doesn't have his own place
We are not a unit in anything
He can be irritable
I keep putting things off for myself
Cotradicts himself
Puts a lot of blame on me
Calls me names
Can be too serious
Can be critical
I feel used
He doesn't like to help me out
We don't share anything together
I am constantly waiting for him to pay attention to me
He is not easy for me to approach
He can get on social networks and text for his friends, but not for me
Seems unemotional
Does not care about my needs
He is not there for me whenever I need him- I feel that he hasn't been there for me once