Stay or go

Deciding whether to take a part time position and move back to the city my ex and I moved to to start our new lives.. We lived there 7 months then things went sour I left the job after my ex left and took a job closer to my hometown. I hate the job I took and recently quit. I now have the opportunity to go back or find a new job here.

Pro: 

Pros:
1) better benefits
2) personal growth in career 
3) hate job- no job now! 
4) have friends and a support base there
5) more activities available oppurtunities to meet new people 
6) I know the system and the hospital ( state college has that too but it still 45 minutes away)
 7) I feel comfortable at the hospital .. And with the people there.. I don't want to start over again with new people..

Con: 

Cons:
1) 4 hrs from my family
2) part time
3) alone 
3) moving and finances 
4)scared about being alone  there , although I live alone now.. Without my ex and  my family near 
5) it's the area I moved to with my now ex (so I got to know the area with her) 

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