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I have been with this man for two years. He recently cheated but still claims to love me and want to be with me. I want to forgive him and maybe be with him too, as in my past I have played the other woman and have also done things to hurt him. WHAT TO DO?? Please help, thank you.
Pro:
• Showed me how to love
• Showed me how to be loved
• Smart
• Listens to me
• Makes me smile
• Has goals
• Serious ( very)
• Patient
• Forgave me for the things I did* ( no one mistake is bigger than another, no one sin is greater than another)
• Made me happy, even when HE made me sad
• Helped me have a home to live in
• Kept me in his house rent free bought groceries and still took me out to the movies
• My family likes him
• Gracie( the cat) likes him, lol
• Makes me think of a happy and bright future ( with him)
• Encourages me even when I do not believe in myself
• Hard worker
• Makes sweeet, amazing, wonderful love to me
• Cooks
• Cleans
• Accepts my flaws but does not let me accept them ( pushes me to be better)
• Not boastful/shy
Con:
• Lied
• Cheated
• Deceived me ( or at least tried to)
• Does not like to go out with me
• Judgmental at times (or maybe I am too sensitive??)
• Does not like to share his thoughts/ feelings with me
• Controls the television
• Keeps things from me ( even though I share just about everything with him)
Con arguments
Eh
Submitted by airuhkuh on Tue, 06/08/2010 - 18:05.
Reading your pros makes me think that you are too dependent on him. He could have cheated precisely because of that, or maybe that is just his personality. If I were you I'd take this cheating as an opportunity to break things off and become a little more independent and figure out how to do all those things he does on your own!
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