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My boyfriend and I have be together for two years. I love him, but that might be part of the problem. I am having serious doubts about us and I am struggling between my head and heart. Most of all, I don't want to feel like I settled for him in a few years.

Pro: 

Funny
Caring
Quirky
Good Job
Attractive
Same goals
Wants kids
Wants to travel

Con: 

Selfish
Issues with Anger
Racist
Misogynistic
Jokes about Everything (even when he knows I am upset about the topic)
Demanding (ex. get really frustrated if no one answers the phone when he calls)
Doesn't like my Sister (no really reason here, he just thinks that she's immature. This has been the cause of a major argument in the past)
Gotten really drunk on two separte occasions and was verbally abusive
Doesn't have a good relationship with his mom (they fight non stop and are really mean to each other)
Likes making people feel stupid
Makes fun of people, but is VERY easily hurt when others make fun of him
Gives me a hard time when I say no to sex (which is VERY rare)
I feel taken for granted

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I think it's pretty obvious. There's definitely a lot of guys out there who you will match better with that have all of your Pro points and more. Any abuse, even if he's drunk, is not okay. They say a drunken mind speaks a sober heart. Also, nobody likes a racist/misogynist. He could just be extremely immature. But that's all okay, you aren't compatible for each other. You will find someone you are compatible with.

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