Torn

I have been with this guy for about 4 months and things were pretty good until he broke his leg. He became very hard to deal with and started being rude to myself and my children. At this point I dont feel he should discipline my children, and to be honest I'm not sure I ever will. He is very strict with his son who he only sees about once a week. So strict that he doesn't even get to experience being a child when he is with him. He currently has no job and is living with me. He is not financially stable and I'm not sure if he ever will be. He prefers to dress regular which is fine but sometimes I want him to dress nice and he hates that. On the other hand my ex has started texting me all the sudden. The only reason we broke up is because he was an alcoholic. He is very good with my children when he isn't drunk. He has stopped drinking due to health issues by the way. He treats me like a queen and he is very finacially stable. He has a good job and takes care of himself. He works hard but dresses nice when we go out.