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Boyfriend wants marriage. I'm not sure.

Pro: 

Good job
Enjoys the same activities I do
Gets along well with my family
We share the same religious beliefs
Great sex
Great chef
Will talk if I force him to (hey, that's better than some men!)
Says all the right things -- a very smooth talker
Has a great body
Genuinely cares about me
Says he wants an independent woman, and though he may not really want that, he has mostly rolled with the punches of actually dating one
Is always willing to try new things
Keeps his head even in disaster
Is never violent
Is very neat
Is an actual, responsible adult

Con: 

Relationship seems to be lacking passion (not the sex -- I mean tenderness, lovey-dovey-ness)
Often asks me not to go out and do things with my friends-- but doesn't put up too much of a fight about it
Is constantly complaining that he doesn't see me enough, but rarely will come to see me (wants me to always go to him)
His idea of a fun evening: stare at TV. Mine: hang out with friends.
Doesn't talk to me about his feelings, esp. if it's something important.
If the topic is something we might argue about, he avoids it like the plague
Lives 45 min away
Doesn't like sports -- football, baseball...come on, I love sports! How can I end up with a guy who doesn't?
His best friend is the most annoying man on Earth
When I told him I didn't want to move in when we'd been dating just six months, he told me he would break up with me (Though he didn't). Oh, and that every other girl would be happy to move in with their bf.
Also told me that every girl should move to hubby's house after marriage, rather than vice-versa
I am so sick of his regular, blanket statements about "all" Americans (he's from India)

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