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I've been married for 11 year. We have 2 kids still at home. Our marriage is a sexless. There is no passion. We have sex about every 3 months. It's been like this for about 9 or 10 years.

My boyfriend or ex boyfriend now, broke things off with me about 3 weeks ago, because he got jealous of a male friend of mine.

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We met about 9 months after my ex-husband left me for another girl and a year later ended up marring her.

I moved abot 3 months ago to Alaska from Ohio for a job. I have a house, dog, cat, car, family all back in Ohio. I LOVE my job. I've been doing well with it and that is the highlight of living here.

I ve been deciding what to purchurse because Ive herd different things about these devices and they all are good but which one should I purchurse